Love addiction | Feel the urgent need to be with your partner | ||
Feel depressed in your partner’s absence | |||
Feel the need to increase the time spent together with your partner to feel relaxed | |||
Stay with your partner to relieve stress | |||
Not reduce the time spent with your partner | |||
Neglect time studying or working to be in the relationship with your partner | |||
Attachment pattern | I trust other people and I like it when other people can rely on me | ||
I feel at ease in intimate relationships | |||
I think it is important that people can rely on each other | |||
I would like to be open to others, but I feel I can't trust other people | |||
I would like to have close relationships with other people, but I find it difficult to fully trust them | |||
I'm afraid that my hopes will be deceived when I get too closely related to others | |||
I am wary to get engaged in close relationships because I'm afraid to get hurt | |||
I feel uncomfortable when relationships with other people become close | |||
I often wonder whether people like me | |||
I am often afraid that other people don't like me | |||
I don't worry whether people like me or not | |||
It is important to me to be independent | |||
I prefer that others are independent of me, and that I am independent of others | |||
I like to be self-sufficient | |||
I don't worry about being alone: I don't need other people that strongly | |||
Interpersonal Dependence | Emotional Reliance | ER1 | I would be completely lost if I didn’t have someone special |
ER2 | I get upset when someone discovers a mistake I've made | ||
ER3 | I must have one person who is very special to me | ||
ER4 | I need to have one person who puts me above all others | ||
ER5 | I would feel helpless if deserted by someone I love | ||
Lack of Social Self-confidence | LSC1 | I would rather be a follower than a leader | |
LSC2 | I feel confident of my ability to deal with most of the personal problems I am likely to meet in life | ||
LSC3 | In an argument. I give in easily | ||
LSC4 | In social situations, I tend to be very self-conscious | ||
LSC5 | I have a lot of trouble making decisions by myself | ||
LSC6 | I don't like to buy clothes by myself | ||
LSC7 | I don't have what it takes to be a good leader | ||
Assertion of Autonomy | AOA1 | I prefer to be by myself | |
AOA2 | I don't need other people to make me feel good | ||
AOA3 | I don't need much from people | ||
AOA4 | When I am sick. I prefer that my friends leave me alone | ||
AOA5 | I don't need anyone |